Fever.....when you kiss me....fever when you hold me tight.....fe-ver

ya I gots a fever...and a headache and whine whine poor me!!! where it come from no one knows.... good thing J is working locally today cuz there is no way I could drive....

speaking of driving I have a little vent.....I pick up a boy from Hailey's K-class everyday for nothing in return....she doesn't do anything for me to do this it was just a really nice thing for me to do! sec just patting myself on the back here... she calls me EVERYDAY to make sure I am picking him up......I find myself lately starting to resent all this cuz there are days when I just don't feel like listening to him telling Faith to be quiet and not look at him and yadda yadda yadda in the van!!!! you know what I am saying here people??? the other thing is she is a complainer!!

pajamas posed a question on her blog today about what kind of friends do you have and what are the 3 top reasons you like about your friends and what are the 3 top reasons you would walk away from a friend..... this mom tends to be a whiner....like she never has anything positive to say......it's always negative. We used to hang out with them more several years ago.....I have known her hubby since I was 14 and he dated one of my sisters... and I had to stop cuz she drove me crazy with her negativity......it was draining... it felt like she sucked all the joy out of me! They lived in the same town that we did and when we moved here almost 3 years ago...they moved 2 weeks later and I felt ahhhhh I can't get away from her!!! someone told me that he thought God brought them into our lives for me to be a friend to her....I was like oh really?? sure you didn't hear that for yourself and are passing it on to me??? huh huh huh??? sorry is this a bad attitude???

Anyways when she called this morning I told her I was sick and I didn't think I could drive and I was going to call J to drive. I said "I don't know if he will pick up your son for you or not" . She says " well could you call me and let me know? cuz otherwise I have to drive him in my pj's"......ok at this point I am thinking......it would be nice for you to offer to come pick up Hailey since I pick up your boy ALL year...I'm sick here remember.........but no I said" well if I have to drive I will be in my pj's too cuz I am sick!!" she says" ok well call me back as soon as you know to let me know if you can drive him".....I want to say " you can drive and you can do it for the rest of the year" .....what I do say " ok I will call you back"...........why am I such a pushover????......so then I complained to J who just told me I am a pushover and I need to set her straight....ya.....so I call her back and say " J is going to drive her so he won't be picking up your boy you will have to drive".....she says "ok, well thanks".........and I am left wondering....how does she not offer to drive or say not to worry about picking him up when she learns I am sick???? ugh and why can't I seem to say "no"......maybe a blind spot????

anyways I am going to go crawl back into bed......did I mention I have a fever???? can you tell I am the youngest in my family and crave attention???? "it's all about me" is my favorite saying!!!

4 comments:

MugwumpMom said...

see....miscommunication...keep it simple and truthful..let your yes be yes and your no be no....LOL...sorry, but I blogged my miscommunication stuff for the day and then read yours...anyhoo...I sure hope you're feeling better soon!! That's blechy that you're feeling blechy. Kisses and hugs.

Ruth said...

Hey I hate getting sick. Yuck!! The password thing is fairly new at the comments, don't know why, but I usually have to do one if I have not logged in for a while.

mommyof4 said...

Id tell her to take her own child to school and you don't care if she has to do it naked!;) I hope you feel better soon (((hugs))

Patti said...

That's sucks! Hope you feel better soon.